STRICTLY FOR US ...... THE SINGLE BABES

Got the following from a friend's page on Facebook YOUNG, MARRIED AND LOVING IT.  I feel I should share with my good friends so that they can help someone someone by sharing this also . I read and I love it .

Getting Married: How Do You Know for Sure?

Always a bridesmaid…that is what I thought I would be. As I watched friend after friend walk down the aisle and say, “I do” to their prince charming, I wondered if I would ever be a bride. I had dated several guys who wanted to become more serious, but when they would start talking about marriage I would start backing away – quickly. Marriage was a huge commitment, and I wasn’t about to take it lightly. In all of my relationships I had never felt like I knew for sure that the guy was the one.

How do you know that for sure? I would often ask my friends or spiritual mentors. The reply was always the same, “You just know.” Thanks for clearing that up for me.

What does that mean anyway? You just know. I know a lot of things until I change my mind about them. I just knew that I loved the comforter and pillows that I picked out for my bed – until a year later when I decided I needed a whole new look. I know this is trivial compared to marriage, but the logic seemed the same to me. Even if I was sure now that this person was the one I should marry, would I still feel that way in two years? What about in 20 years? I was signing up to be with the person for the rest of my life; I had to be sure.

In my case, I already knew Matt quite well. We had attended college together and had become good friends. We even went on a couple dates, but I was never interested in anything more than friendship. But eight years later that friendship had turned into something more, and we began dating. However, I still wasn’t sure I wanted to marry him.

DO ALL MEN CHEAT ?

 I've been with my boyfriend for 5years .We've been 2gether since we were 21 ( if u calculate my age , u r on your own ) and I  KNOW for a fact he has not been faithful for ALL the 5 years,there is no way. I have never fought him for not picking up his calls , girls calling him , coming home late, etc. But in the back of my head, I feel like there is no way he could have been faithful and this smooth all these years . Can I be wrong or right ? 

WHY ARE WE NOT PRACTISING THE SAME RELIGION?

Foluso and Quadri  have been dating for seven years. They did not consider their backgrounds, all they wanted was to be joined as man and wife. Eventually they did, their sweet love became bitter. Usman wanted  his children to practise Islam, while Foluso wanted Christianity. They dragged this for years until Foluso couldn’t take it anymore, she moved out. The once upon a time love song ended with a dirge .

WHY GIVE UP ?

I have a good friend who jumps from idea to idea trying to become a millionaire. He wants the fastest path to riches. He gets all excited about his latest idea but as soon as it becomes work, he stops, and looks for “a better way”. This is a sure-fire way to fail… You have to constantly water your seeds! You have to prepare and work your fields for the seeds to take, to grow strong roots, and produce crops. You can’t just go around scattering seeds hoping something will grow. Farmers don’t operate businesses that way, why would you expect your finances or business ideas to work any differently. I have heard that to become “an overnight success” it takes at least two years! You grind it out, put blood, sweat, and tears in to it, and then just maybe it may lead to something worthwhile. But quitting? It’s not an option! Too often people quit right before their big break was about to take place. They miss the blessings God had in store. Wars are exhausting — especially long ones. That’s why you are often tired. Most soldiers who experience the fierceness of combat want to get out of it. That’s why you feel urges to escape or surrender. That’s why there are times you’re tempted to give up. 

NEED TO SLAP MY BOSS

I have worked at my place of employment for just over a year and a half, and my boss is ....... well I wouldn't want even anyone that has wronged me to work with this person. I have been called stupid, retarded and incompetent, I have been belittled and disrespected in front of other employees. Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest person but i don't believe anyone deserves to be treated this way.

JOINT ACCOUNT ROCKS ............

Love is blind, especially when it comes to finance. However, money has always been a discipline that requires both eyes wide open. Many couples who are more caught up in the throes of their new relationship than in planning realistically for their future open joint accounts, only to find out later that they have put themselves in a disadvantageous situation. And contrary to popular belief, relationships do not have to sour for a joint account to be a bad idea, although, of course, the joint account does make breaking up even harder to do.

IS ORAL SEX A SIN ?

“My partner and I love the Lord with all our hearts and we don't want to do anything to sin against Him. Our question is in the area of oral sex. Is it scripturally wrong? Some have tried to make a biblical issue out of what parts of the body a married couple can and cannot kiss. In their minds, there is only one biblical form of sexual expression in marriage, sexual intercourse. They attempt to defend their viewpoint on biblical grounds—trying to make it into a holiness issue. However, is there anywhere in the Scripture putting such limits on the sexual relationship?  It is important to remember that God created sex to be a beautiful expression of love. When the husband or the wife does not feel that sex is a "beautiful expression of love," then changes need to be made in that couple's sex life. Evidentially, the actions are not mutually beneficial to each person. Nothing in the Bible says that oral sex is a sin; however it may not be appropriate for every couple. I AM YET TO FIND IT ANYWAY.